what are options in this situation? separated right now, on the way to div maybe. Wife says in a few yrs she might be ready to move (possibly all the way across the country) for her job. We have 2 children, ages 5 & 7, we both love being w/ them 50-50 and share them. what r my options (or our options) if or when she decides to move and I'm still here with job & house? Appreciate the responses, some of the options r obvious but just would like to hear all possibilities from 3rd parties. thanks.

What the reason for the separation?

^^^Speaking of Cunts

You are pretty much fucked. Hope you are ready to move across country as well.

Time to go back to court. You can stop this.

What do you mean? What do you mean, what are your options? Now, or then? Then, your options are to either agree to a relocation that potentially moves your out of state or you don't. Those are the only options. Now, your best option for keeping them in-state is to make yourself into their primary parent. Be the one who does the job. You take them to extracurricular, you take them to doctor's appointments, you sign off on homework, you show up at all school meetings and teacher conferences, you volunteer to have them any minute your spouse or ex cannot have them, you involve them in a family and social network here. When the court looks at relocation, obviously the closer you are to the primary parent, the harder it is for them to let the move away. Good luck.